What is love? and What do you feel when you’re in love?
Love is a feeling, love is what everybody needs. By understanding, it grows like plants from the seeds, not all people come across it but one who is, can’t understand it. it is a compromise, sometimes a wealthy sacrifice. it is a relation of trust in which patience is a must. It is not acquired by all, It is a game of luck. it brings a glance of happiness. It also gives the flair of sadness. it is a thing, which happens itself. You have to wait for the instance. Love is everything so get it! Do you know what this sweet love stands for?
L = Life, listening, land of sorrow
O = you are the only I see, overall, the ocean of tears
V = values, valuable, valley of death
E = Everything, excitement, End of life
The above explanation defines the word “love”
1. Different kinds of love:
we have different kinds of love like.
- Love of girl and boy
- …. mother
- …. brother
- …. best friend
- …. sister
- …. husband and wife
- …. animal
”My mind thinks of you the second before I fall asleep and as soon as I wake up each morning”
2. Love is an abstract noun:
But the one we are writing about is only and only love which can’t be touched which can’t be seen but only feels sometimes happy and sometimes sad. Do you know why it changes to different moods?
It is just because it is not what you want it is that which is happening itself and get you in a valley of joy, where you just search for it and you will lose yourself in it. you just see flowers, pleasant moments, excitement, and gifts.
3. What do we feel when we are in love?
Allah Almighty has created everyone equally and give heart to everyone to feel for each other to know each other. you feel a deep, inexplicable craving within your the heart. your hands stay cold and wet. you have cold sweat running down your armpits for no reason. your heart beats faster and more fiercely than ever before in your life.
”Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.”
4. Your Emotions:
Your desk littered with CDs without covers and covers without CDs, all scattered in a haphazard manner. some you rented, others purchased, and yet others borrowed from your friends and never given back. your computer’s 80- GB hard disc is brimming with songs and pictures of flowers, hearts, valentines, and sunsets.
”Through weakness and strength, happiness and sorrow, for better for worse, I will love you with every beat of my heart.”
5. Your Behavior:
your behavior will become unpredictable and erratic. you will listen to the songs and singing out loud; you will be lost deep in thoughts. you will perk up and scribble some lines of poetry. when you remember some sweet memory you will wear a smile on your lips. Daydreaming, thinking of sweet thoughts every second of every minute of every hour of every day. Time no longer seems flying__ for you, it is constant and unchanging because your world is dreamy and sweet and red and pink, and you feel no connection to anything else.
“It is impossible to understand addiction without asking what relief the addict finds, or hopes to find, in the drug or the addictive behavior.”
6. Loneliness in Love:
you were the person who used to attend all gatherings, celebrations, and ceremonies, talking to friends, joking and laughing out loud. But now you want to be alone to be in the corner of the house where no one disturbs you. you wanna find peace and quiet, no noise; you want apathy, gloomy blotting out the fragrance of flowers and the radiance of relationships. everything is bleak and grim for you. you find no way out of this conundrum, your friends complaining about you because you will not give them enough time.
“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.”
7. Sacrifices in Love:
we human beings first get in touch with each other and start loving but sometimes this feeling changes into hates into sad moments than everything seems to be broken as if you have died you want to do suicide but it is also the name of sacrifices. people sacrifice themselves for their love in order to be alive forever the real examples are
Romeo Juliet, heer Ranja, Sheerin Farhad, Leela Majno, Yousuf Zuligha the real lovers that died and sacrificed themselves for each other but remain alive for all lovers. it is a very strange relationship where you don’t find but it gets you and starts making your luck. some lovers are one sight lovers and some are both sights but the love which is done by one side it is very difficult you feel as if you are in searching of someone who even doesn’t feel for you. Then you determine in a very complicated relationship.
”Love’s a sacrifice. You must feel pain, but it will make you stronger, wiser and more beautiful.”
8. Love is God gifted:
God has given everyone the right to do it and get it. people say true love is less but its wrong because it’s upon you whether you do by heart or by a mind. because in this situation you can’t decide which one your doing.love of a girl is honest, she loves more than every relation. she leaves every relation just because of a boy to make his life the most successful and happiest life. she can’t contribute the love of his husband or boyfriend. the only thing she needs from his partner that’s full love. if she gets hurt from the partner than she leaves and ignore and never trust anyone.
so start loving each other don’t waste the time because life is very short blink your eye and you see everything has changed. never play with the true feeling of someone because Allah says I love those of my creatures who spread it among all.